by Daisy Lacuanan-Callanta
Our monthly expenses, as well as the unexpected ones which crop up, sometimes affect John’s and my decision, as a married couple, to spend money on regular “date nights.” We used to feel guilty after we went out, thinking that we should have saved, rather than spent the money. Eventually, however, we have come to realize that it’s important to allow ourselves some time alone—our relationship improves, and this makes us happy parents, which in turn makes our children happier, too.
Lack of money should not stop us from spicing up our relationship; after all, love doesn’t have to be “mahal.” Instead of expensive date night venues, we have come up with some wallet-friendly, love-nurturing tips:
- Let the Kids Stay Overnight with the Grandparents. This gives us time to just be together, being intimate, and doing things we both love, without worrying about
the kids. - “I Love You Because…” We write small notes to each other,and mention the reasons why we love each other. This works like magic in bringing back romance.
- Surprise visits. It is fun to go to John’s workplace for an unscheduled date to show how in love we still are despite years of being together.
- Couple Time. When my OFW hubby comes home for a vacation (long or short), we ensure that we have an overnight couple getaway. Good hotel rooms at discounted prices can be found on travel websites.
- Couple Makeover. Share ideas with your husband on what change of hairstyle or treatment would make you both look stylish and younger, then go to an affordable yet reputable salon.
- ”Do-It-Yourself” Service Coupon! Make coupons for performing services or tasks that your other half will appreciate. Each of us takes turns as to who is eligible for a service coupon. This allows us both to be creative about what will make each of us feel more appreciated.
- Go Back to Where It All Started. Go back to where you had your first date! Talk about favorite memories from the past, and share dreams of the future, as you both thank God that you are staying in love and are able to be together.
